I told a friend in the Netherlands, "I’ve been admitted to a school in your country without a scholarship." Excited, he messaged me about securing funding and finding accommodation, and he shared scholarship options. One message, in particular, stood out: "Beatrice, whenever you are free, send me your plan for securing funding by August." I laughed and replied, "I qualify for scholarships like Rotary and World Bank—I’m going to try for them." His next message was direct: "I’m not asking you to try—everyone can try. Are you going to give your all to secure the funding? If yes, I’ll help all I can." He added, "You could live all your dreams if you get the scholarship. IHE is one of the best schools—and it’s on my street." Reflecting on his words, I realize now that achieving what you truly want requires total commitment, not just effort. You either give everything or walk away. Merely trying is not enough. Maybe you’re telling yourself yo...